With issues with the teen that I am not yet ready to blog about and a husband that has been in pain with back issues, along with my fledgling business its would be more than fair to say that not only have I been pulled in lots of different directions, but also that at times I have probably not made the right choice about direction at that time was spent in.
If I am totally honest I think I stopped listening, and with both of us complacency was something that had featured highly for a while and the scary fact was that it slipped in there without either of us really spotting it.
Over the last few weeks I think we have both seen what is happening and its a scary place to be, neither wanting the rift but not knowing how to sort it either.
So on Sunday we spent some time reconnecting and planning.
Its an expensive commodity for us at the moment but one that we really need to use wisely to keep us … us .. dramatic? maybe but its true, you only get what you put in certainly rings true for most things in life and for me this is the case in relationships.
So this week marks a turning point for us as a couple to make more time available to spend together to reconnect and to build on what we have ..
We are lucky we know we love each other, but the bitch that is time just gets away from us and I think we have missed each other.
I am really looking forward to making plans and being us more often, not just ships that pass in the night any more.
Scratch that Ollie I am sorry and from this point forward I will make more of an effort.