
I guess it’s not different where the kids are concerned either. As I seem to have blinked and missed most of Jacobs first years as surely he can’t be 3 already?!
This year with Joshua being at school and work commitments overflowing we decided to just chill down the birthday celebrations this year. We get manically obsessed with the ‘perfect’ birthday but we know that no matter what stress filled event we plan the kids prefer just to be with us without the stress.
So this year we decided to just spend some time together letting Jacob play at soft play and then having a family tea.
The Birthday
Birthday breakfasts are a normal breakfast with chocolate pastries as an extra. Although if its my breakfast I prefer to ditch the pastries and go for a full fry up, normally at Toby Carvery!
The Presents
This year we spent weeks asking Jacob what he wanted for gifts but he only asked for “presents”
Soft Play Fun
After Joshua was taken to school we headed off to a local soft play located in a garden centre. Jacob got stuck in with his soft play adventure. Obviously we had to stay for a drink and a gingerbread biscuit for Jacob and breakfast cobs for Ollie and I who missed breakfast.
Jacob stood his ground in the soft play after coming across another little boy that was using everyone as a punch bag. Thankfully he came out ready for home defiantly proud at telling no!
Birthday Cake
This time round there was no stress or tears and Jacob loved his cake so much that he didn’t know or care that it was only half homemade!
This year has gone so quickly that I am slightly panicking about next year as his next birthday will signify the year he starts school too!

